When I decided to retire, the hardest part was to tell my staff and my community. After 8 years as principal of a large, culturally and linguistically diverse urban school, I have made many wonderful friends, have had many challenges, and many successes. Over the years, my school has been the recipient of several national and state awards, in part because we are a community that has learned to work well together.

Some people may think that I chose to retire because I didn�t like my job, or my health was bad, or I was moving�. Actually, it was none of these. Even though I had a job I LOVED and that paid very well, its very nature created more stress in my life than I was willing to live with at this point in my life. With over 800 students and 65 staff members, the pace was fast, the problems and issues constant. I chose to leave on my terms: while my school was thriving and I still had enough energy to tackle other projects and plans.

So, in late-May, on the day I informed my staff of my retirement, there were many tears, good wishes, thanks, and laughter. I did not want a lot of fanfare � it is not my style. I just wanted to go quietly. Nonetheless, I agreed to a �dinner� in my honor, hosted by my staff at a local restaurant.

To my surprise, this dinner was actually an elaborate retirement party attended by about 85 people, friends and colleagues from the last 15 years. There were videos, surprise VIP guests, entertainment, memory books, great food, orchids galore, and more. It was a wonderful celebration that I will never forget. Some �regrets� I have: because the party was planned in less than two weeks, some people at previous schools were not invited (obviously, I did not control this), and I feel badly that there are some hurt feelings. Also, I would have insisted on NO GIFTS (had I known). All in all, it was a lovely and memorable evening and I feel honored to be recognized in this way.